My wife's GRAD!!!

Alhamdulillah.. my wonderful wife have just graduated and had her convocation last weekend. Subhanallah... Alhamdulillah.. Allahu Akbar...

It meant alot to her.. Yup..

Aniwei.. we head out to KL on Friday rite after solat.. Took the bus at Larkin.. Met MJ and Fadhli at UKM Stesen Kommuter, and overnighted at their neighbours place.. Waah.. bilik dia mcm honeymoon suite! haha.. siap shower n tv.. ada aircon lagi.. best..

dorang 2 cutelah.. Tempat rumah diorang is known as Desa Al-Amin.. Then they do teach at the school behind their house. Sekolah Al-Amin. Best kan! hehe..

That's their dakwah platform.. apart from the 2-3 anak buah usrah groups, and MJ's small books and stickers.. Wonderful couple.. yup.. manage to go out makan satay kajang ngan dioorang. and also eat dinner at their place with their parents! Ok, this truout the whole trip..

Anyway, back to my wife.. Her parents came down for the convo.. cuma a day later than us. They brought along with them, my bro n sis inlaws.. Osman, Sarhani and the cute Tihanny and Syafeeq! hehe..

Was a historical moment for my wife.. as she walks up the stage and receive the award. Not only that, it was announced that she was the best student in her faculty (Dakwah)! It was touching also for my parent in laws. watching their beloved daughter receiving the diploma and recognition.. haiz.. and of course to me too..

Once we went out of hall, osman n sarhani, surprised her with a huge bouquet of flowers! FuhyuuooO!!!

Nice huh.. Well.. especially to my wife.. it was so so meaningful n historical.. A great mark in her life. It wasnt easy for Singaporeans to study in Malaysia. Suiting to the life there, living with locals there.. Studying life.. as well as havin to come back to Singapore on weekends to do part-time teaching..

And we actually got married like when she was still studying.. In d mid of her final Sem. People, always question us, why have our wedding when she is still studying.. y cannot wait until the end of her studies. Nanti kacau her studies n result lah.. Well..

We discuss abt it (OF COurse).. And we went through all the consequences.. pros n cons.. defintely.. But we believe in the islamic practise, of jangan dilambatkan dan harus di cepatkan perkahwinan itu, selagi kita dah buat perjanjian..

We know, to us, there were more cons when it comes to prolonging the relationship. Yah.. Look around u, we humans are weak, n we tend to make lots of mistakes without us realising it. By prolonging ur relationship b4 marriage, alot of unwanted things to happen, and u may say u can control ur adab n ur iman, and all.. but we are still weakness.. whom the fitrah is suka the other gender, n would slowly try to do things bit by bit, without realising it. Basically, kita bak elakkan dari more maksiat and kemungkaran utk berlaku..

At the end of the day.. benda2 mcm ni, boleh affect, the keberkatan of kehidupan kita selepasa berumahtangga.. Selepas perjanjian nikah itu.. kita sangat2 perlukan rahmat tuhan dan berkat darinya..

Dont u think so..

But look what happen now..
Terbukti.. Alhamdulillah.. Allah's mercy on us.. With His help.. Jika landasan dan tujuan pernikahan itu betul.. di jalan Nya.. Dia akan bantu..

Afifah, manage to complete her studies, get her diploma, get A for thesis, and still get to be d best student in her faculty. Again, this is nothing abt bongkak n riak. But plainly bersyukur atas bantuan yg diberi olehNya..

So.. yup...
Moving on.. we are putting the stones for us to jump on to move on further up the river..

I love You Allah.. I love you Qalbi...

May Allah bless our small efforts in His Cause..

Peace out...

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